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EXES AS FRIENDS
My girlfriend is still close friends with her ex-boyfriend. They talk once a week on the phone. She says I have nothing to worry about, but I’m a little insecure about the whole thing. What would you do?
-Dave with Doubts
GAYDAR NEEDS ADJUSTING
My gaydar is way off. Way off. In the five semi-serious relationships I’ve had (ranging from eight months to two and a half years), THREE of the men admitted afterward to being confused about their sexuality. It’s no just an excuse either. One of my ex-boyfriends is in an open relationship with another man, just two years after me.
I’d like to include that I’m not meeting these men at bars. Of the three, I met one in college, another at the library, and the most recent was a set up by a mutual friends. What the hell?
I have an angora sweater fetish—just like [B-movie] director Ed Wood. I wear them in the privacy of my home; they make me feel sexy. After a recent divorce, I’m starting to date again. When should I bring this up? Should I let a woman know right up front, or wait until the relationship is further along?
I’m trying to establish some technology boundaries with my boyfriend. We are both terrible about texting/calling/checking emails/surfing You Tube on our cell phones and iPads all the time, so I’m trying to make a few rules, like no texting at dinner and cell phones on silent in the bedroom. My boyfriend is having a hard time keeping his phone out of arm’s reach. Help?